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One of the ways to manifest positive results in your physical health is through the awareness of forgiveness and how it plays a big role in your reality.  Your emotions play a part in creating the way in which your physical body experiences life.

I was recently presented with the perfect example of this concept in motion. I was on my way into an establishment for breakfast when I heard a woman say to her friends that her big toe was numb and that it tingled. I thought to offer the woman some conveyance of hope in her plight so I introduced myself politely. I asked her if she had considered that something was cutting off the circulation causing the tingling sensation. “Yes,” she replied, “I know that, and that is why I am going to physical therapy.” I smiled in acknowledgement to her reply. One of her friends looked at me and said,”Oh, you must be a nurse.” “No,” I replied, “I am a minister.” Her friend lost interest, but she looked at me with interest and requested that I share my insight. I asked her if there was anything or anyone else in her life that she could think of that was cutting off her circulation, or anyone that she perceived was cutting her off from the love of SPIRIT / God. She thought about it for a while and said, “Yes, I can think of one directly.” She looked me in the eye for the first time. “Can you forgive them and restore your circulation of love,” I asked her. She looked away from me quickly and replied firmly: “No.” It was clear to me that she was not ready to release the hurt through forgiveness.

At radiantlove.us, there are four key ways we keep in mind in manifesting positive results in our physical health. When I was transforming my health, I spend a lot of time thinking about exactly what my body was telling me about the state of my life. I wanted to understand exactly what my body was communicating with me, and how I could create more positive results. These are the four key ways that I kept in mind. 

Four Key Ways to Create Positive Results in Your Health through Forgiveness.

1. Recognize that holding onto emotions that create stressful feelings in your body only hurts you. No matter how much anger you harbor or project toward others – it is your body that is processing the vibrational frequency.

2. Understanding that forgiveness does not mean that you are opening yourself up for hurt again. It means that you release the energy that you absorbed, and establish a set of boundaries that keep you safe and healthy.

3. Be willing to forgive. If you can recognize that holding onto certain thoughts, feeling, and emotions only perpetuation more of those kinds of thoughts feelings and emotions – then you can make a choice to change the circumstance creating them, find forgiveness, and begin to create a new reality for your life. 

4. Identify what the different pain points are in your physical body, what are you struggling with? Use the words that describe your physical pain to explore your current emotional state; review your current life circumstance and what the people you surround yourself with bring into your life.

Lastly, keep in mind the end benefit of what you are doing. It is easy to become distracted and sucked back into the drama that created the circumstances in the first place. When we are closely involved in any situation we can become trapped and our thinking narrows to accept the situation as a reality that we cannot change or feel we must suffer through. This is simply not true.

These four key ways will give you a model to work from and you can choose whether to embrace them one at a time or all at once. This a great resource for understanding why forgiveness is important in helping to create positive results in your health.

Your Path to success:
Ready to create positive results in your own health? Do your homework of writing down all the places that your body has aches and pains. Then use a dictionary or thesaurus to come up with similar words that match the circumstances in your life right now. That way you will have a more clear picture of what is really going on for you right now, and you can take steps to make create differently.

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DeannaDeanna Gloyd, Your Spiritual Mentor, founder of Transformational Coaching with Radiant Love©, a proven spiritual method that teaches you how to connect with SPIRIT / God in a way that will transform your life, create a closer relationship with SPIRIT / God, and increase your inner peace in a way that is authentic and sustainable.

 You will not always be in the place you are right now, you will transcend, you will move forward. There is a better tomorrow.To receive your weekly transformational article on creating a intimate relationship with SPIRIT / God, increase your inner joy and peace, and creating positive self talk, enter your email at the box at the top right of the page right away.


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I am sending you Joy!

 I have a question for you. What is the song that you sing each day as you walk through life?

 

We live in a Universe which means “one song” it is a song of balance, peace, and harmony. It is a song of abundant life and joy. 

 
What I have found is that as we go through life we pick up discordant energy – or an energy vibration that lowers our walk through life. From that we can experience pain, frustration, depression, and anxiety.
 
Society can teach us that this is “just life.” But I challenge that notion. Our Divine Creator Source of All / God set in front of us life and death, and instructed us to choose life. (Deuteronomy 30:19).
 
So today, this day, I send you peace. I ask you to question anything in your life that does not create peace and joy in your life. Discover why it is creating discord in your life and endeavor to transform it to support your self value and flow in Divine peace and joy.
 
I have asked that everyone who reads this and accepts, receive an Angel of Light to bring them joy and peace in their lives so they may feel that love within them.
 
And so it is!

Path to success:

The first step forward is awareness. If you are aware that you are not experiencing peace in your life each day, it is time to become fully aware of what you are filling your life with and discover how to authentically transform and enhance your life through The Personal Energy Management System®.

One of quick way to create joy in your life is to free yourself from the criticism of others. I recommend that you recognize others project what they are experiencing in their life right now outwardly. Once we recognize that it is not our challenge to process this for them, we are free to move forward in our own lives.

If you are having challenges freeing yourself from the criticism of others, I recommend that you write down all the good things about yourself today, and begin to think about yourself differently. The tool that will take you from self doubt to self empowerment the quickest is The Personal Energy Management System®. It’s everything you will ever need to know to embrace self love quickly, no matter what your life looks like right now. All the tools to create the connection with SPIRIT / God, affirmations to build and develop your self confidence, worksheets, and personal coaching by me, are handed to you on a silver platter. So we will start by assessing where you are right now, and then get you started with step one of the system and when you are done with that you will move onto the next step, and so on. It is easy, and that is why my clients have gotten such great results in their lives.

To begin I would like to extend to you an opportunity for us to get to know one another on a Get Acquainted Call. It is 30 minutes for you to invest in yourself as my free gift to you. Sometimes the awareness you gain on this call is all that you need to change your life. Simply click on the button below and book the time that works best for you.

During our time together we will look at what is working for you in your life, and what is not. If you are ready your next step is The Personal Energy Management System®. It is everything you will ever need to know to embrace self love quickly, no matter what your life looks like right now.

It is easy, and that is why my clients have gotten such great results in their lives. Are you ready? 

 

      
DeannaDeanna Gloyd, Your Spiritual Mentor, founder of Transformational Coaching with Radiant Love©, a proven spiritual method that teaches you how to connect with SPIRIT / God in a way that will transform your life, create a closer relationship with SPIRIT / God, and increase your inner peace in a way that is authentic and sustainable.

 You will not always be in the place you are right now, you will transcend, you will move forward. There is a better tomorrow.To receive your weekly transformational article on creating a intimate relationship with SPIRIT / God, increase your inner joy and peace, and creating positive self talk, enter your email at the box at the top right of the page right away.


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Big Hug, and I send love to you all – together we will ascend,
Deanna

 

How to experience Quiet Confidence

Often we have loved ones in our lives that would use us, or make their issues ours. Take heart we all face challenges and issue along our life path, and yes there are those who would despitefully use you, but God / SPIRIT does not intend that you suffer from abuse.

When you first begin your journey toward emotional wholeness, you may feel that you do not have all the answers. This is more common that you can imagine. However this is no reason to delay getting started on your path to wholeness.

Your path begins with a single step of determination not to be despitefully used. What does that mean? It means beginning to understand how you are being treated, by whom, and how you can establish successful boundaries. Now when I first started out, I was pretty much beaten down, so much so that my own friends did not even recognize the person I had become. Where once I was a vibrant, loving, caring person, I was now stressed out, depressed, and extremely anxious. That is no way for anyone to live their lives.

Understanding where you are now will help you to transition into a more positive state of being. There may be reasons that you allow others to insult you, treat you abusively, falsely accuse you, or threaten you. It may be that up until now you have been unaware of the reasons for your feelings of inadequacy, anxiety, or depression.

Begin to add value to yourself by finding ways to say no to the abuse. By doing this you are honoring yourself and God / SPIRIT. For it is written in Matthew 5:44 “I say to you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who despitefully use you and persecute you.”KJV

Take revolutionary action. The love spoken of by Jesus is the kind that is beneficial to both the abuser and yourself. It is not about having a “loving” feeling or apathy toward those who would use you, it is about doing the highest good ~creating boundaries. By creating boundaries you are making a statement that you have value and purpose, and you are sending a message to the other person that their actions are not loving or kind.

Your action can be simple and compelling. Of course I encourage you to weigh the course of your own actions, and seek professional help as needed. Each situation is unique and must be handled accordingly. Once you decide to take action you will begin to experience greater self confidence and self value. Taking action in wisdom creates a loving process as it sends a strong message to the person who is using you that you are no longer participating in that kind of reality. It also send as message to God / SPIRIT that you are ready to heal and move on in your life.

You are unique and special. You are loved by the Creator Source of All. Stepping out can take some courage and determination. Once you begin to take the emotional abuse out of your life, reclaim your personal space, and experience your own true Divine Nature, you will gain more and more self confidence. In that confidence you will be able to express your desire to have a peaceful and joyful emotional boundary. All else will simply pass through your energy field, be observed, and remain unabsorbed leaving you room to truly be who you are and navigate joyfully through life.

Path to success:

See if you can sit quietly for a while. Are you able to still your mind? Take a moment to see what kind of emotions you are experiencing when no one else is present. Is there a common thread that creates anxiousness? Take time everyday to review how far you have come in establishing boundaries and saying no to those who would despitefully use you. Create a space for confidence in yourself. Quiet your mind in realizing that you are unique and valuable to God / SPIRIT and yourself. 

Now if you are just starting out and unsure about how to implement subtle steps to experience and create your space of quiet self confidence, then follow my step-by-step system that allows you to develop both self esteem and your freedom for true emotional healing. To get started click the “sign up for Instant Access” button below.

Together we will take a look at what is going on for you and how you can embark on your road to wholeness, worthiness and acceptance, work with SPIRIT / God to shift your vibration and increase your feelings of inner peace. We will set up a step by step system to help you manage the feelings and emotions, increase your awareness on how to stay positive, and give you tools to create a better future. I look forward to serving you.

To begin click on button below and select a time that is best for us to work together.

 

      

DeannaDeanna Gloyd, Your Spiritual Mentor, founder of Transformational Coaching with Radiant Love©, a proven spiritual method that teaches you how to connect with SPIRIT / God in a way that will transform your life, create a closer relationship with SPIRIT / God, and increase your inner peace in a way that is authentic and sustainable.

 You will not always be in the place you are right now, you will transcend, you will move forward. There is a better tomorrow.To receive your weekly transformational article on creating a intimate relationship with SPIRIT / God, increase your inner joy and peace, and creating positive self talk, enter your email at the box at the top right of the page right away.


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Big Hug, and I send love to you all – together we will ascend,
Deanna

The Secret to a Happy and Joyous Life

What I find to be interesting is that the secret to a joyous and happy life is the opposite of what is portrayed in the media, news, and movies. When I choose to watch what is being transmitted what I find is a huge amount of violence, disrespect, hatred, disdain, and above all lack of true happiness. It is apparent that we all love a good story where there is mystery and intrigue, where there is great peril for a hero or heroine, and it expected that that the good guy or gal wins in the end.

But is this a true reflection of the way life truly is? Well it can be. We all faces challenges, run various themes throughout our lives, or are surrounded by similar characters in our circles of family and friends. But how we see what happens to us – our perspective or point of view depends a large part on how we were raised, how we experienced life in our formative years, and what stimuli we take in in our day to day lives.

It is good to be aware that vision is our most dominant sense. And in knowing that it is wise to be aware of what that stimuli that sense is taking in, and how it can affect our perspective or point of view.

To be plain there are many secrets to a happy and joyous life. From my point of view it begins with seeking God’s truest love (Matthew 6:33), and all else will be added to you. On my journey the happiness began once I made a conscious decision to shed all the drama, trauma, and violence in my life.

I began simply by really looking at what I was allowing into my physical and psychological presence. I then made a few simple adjustments as to what I chose to allow as part of my daily visual stimulus. 

Path to success:
Here is a simple exercise that you can use to get started in reviewing what you are allowing into your presence, and what is influencing your point of view. On a piece of paper make a list of the following elements: man hits man, man hits woman, a gun is fired, someone is stabbed, verbal abuse, heated accusations. Then put this list near you when you are watching what is being transmitted. Place a tick mark next to each element when you are exposed to it. Do this for five days. You may be amazed at how much negative energy is being fed into your mind. Be aware that the more negative in, the less room there is for true joy and happiness.

 Now if you are unsure about how to turn your life around or even where to start, sign up for your first one on one consultation with me. Together we will take a look at what is going on for you and how you can embark on your road to wholeness, worthiness and acceptance, work with SPIRIT / God to shift your vibration and increase your feelings of inner peace. We will set up a step by step system to help you manage the feelings and emotions, increase your awareness on how to stay positive, and give you tools to create a better future. I look forward to serving you.      DeannaDeanna Gloyd, Your Spiritual Mentor, founder of Transformational Coaching with Radiant Love©, a proven spiritual method that teaches you how to connect with SPIRIT / God in a way that will transform your life, create a closer relationship with SPIRIT / God, and increase your inner peace in a way that is authentic and sustainable.

 You will not always be in the place you are right now, you will transcend, you will move forward. There is a better tomorrow.To receive your weekly transformational article on creating a intimate relationship with SPIRIT / God, increase your inner joy and peace, and creating positive self talk, enter your email at the box at the top right of the page right away.


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Big Hug, and I send love to you all – together we will ascend,
Deanna

Keys to having faith in a time of despair

I often am asked: Deanna how do you do it? How do you go on each day with such a positive outlook – even in times of despair?

One answerIn a dark time in my life, when I thought there was nothing else but a dead end street of misery and despair – I cried out to God and asked to be taken to a better place. My definition of a better place and God’s were two different destinations. I am now here, doing his work, spreading his light, and he it is that constantly works in my life to insure that I have what I need to work out his life for me. I am so grateful and awe-stricken where I find myself now than where I was when I cried out to God. I am in a better place, in this life, now. I know there is nothing that with his partnership that can not be done.

Here are the keys that I used to walk in faith in a time of despair. 

1. Never give up! Even in what seems like your darkest hour, when all appearances point to there being no way out, when it seems that everyone has turned their back on you, or is powerless to help you. God will send a glimmer of light. There will be a way shown to you. Keep seeking. 

2. Ask and it is given. When you are disparaged it can be a challenge to change how you see what is happening to you. There is a tendency to focus on the negative aspect,  the pain of what we are experiencing instead of asking for an exit point by which to escape the pressure that is upon us. When the pressure has been relieved we can then look at the situation, learn from it, and move forward.

3. What to do when the answer appears to be “No”. God promises that he will never leave us or forsake us (Hebrews 13:5). It took me a while to understand that it was me who had chosen to walk a path that was not for my highest good. The choices that I had made had lead me down a path that was neither right nor wrong. It just was. And it was painful. I was still learning and growing just as SPIRIT has intended for us all to do in this life. God was right there by my side the entire time. When I asked why I had been made to suffer I was told it was so that I could understand and have compassion for others. The compassion of the results of choices made and energies experienced. When I asked to be led out of the darkness and misery I found that I had a path. A journey to unwind what I had wound. The unwinding is a steady process, a day to day journey. 

4. It is vitally important to trust. There was a long time in my life that I struggled with trust. I had been used and abused by so many for so long that I did not know how to trust, or that it was even possible to trust. I had been told for many years that if I did this, then I would receive that. No matter how much I believe, or how hard I tried the reward was withheld from me, or given to me tainted, or even given to enjoy and then ripped away cruelly. This can make your view of the world skewed and your view of your relationship with SPIRIT even more distorted. It can take time to trust, and it can take a leap of faith. Know that SPIRIT / God / Source is always there loving and caring for you. It is up to you to reach out and trust. . .as much as you can right now.

5. Perspective is everything.  Take heart if you are in despair right now. It may be a hiccup, a bump in the road. There are times when we are headed in a not so positive direction and a reset button is hit in our lives. Notice if you have been experiencing a situation in your life that has caused you to complain or be consistently unhappy there may be a sudden change in your life circumstance. This is the hand of SPIRIT answering your prayers. It may feel like something is being ripped from you – it is. It is a reset button. The negative experience is being removed so that the positive experience can be brought to you. The road will be bumpy for a while so that everything has a chance to reset itself. Keep the faith.

 

Your Radiant Love Assignment:  Take a few moments to think about where you are in your life right now. Think about what you are facing and how you can change your interaction with SPIRIT to engage in a walk of faith. Begin to realise where God is currently working in your life and develop the trust as each new positive thing begins to develop.  Now if you are unsure about how to turn your life around or even where to start, sign up for your first one on one consultation with me. Together we will take a look at what is going on for you and how you can embark on your road to wholeness, worthiness and acceptance, work with SPIRIT / God to shift your vibration and increase your feelings of inner peace. We will set up a step by step system to help you manage the feelings and emotions, increase your awareness on how to stay positive, and give you tools to create a better future. I look forward to serving you.     Deanna Deanna Gloyd, Your Spiritual Mentor, founder of Transformational Coaching with Radiant Love©, a proven spiritual method that teaches you how to connect with SPIRIT / God in a way that will transform your life, create a closer relationship with SPIRIT / God, and increase your inner peace in a way that is authentic and sustainable. You will not always be in the place you are right now, you will transcend, you will move forward. There is a better tomorrow.To receive your weekly transformational article on creating a intimate relationship with SPIRIT / God, increase your inner joy and peace, and creating positive self talk, enter your email at the box at the top right of the page right away.

Twelve Simple Things I Found to be True

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Twelve Simple Things that I have found to be True


1. If you love, you will be loved
2. When there is joy in your heart there is truth in your life.
3. When you see someone suffering send Angels to help them.
4. A simple smile can brighten anyone’s day, and it spreads.
5. SPIRIT / God is always right there just waiting for you to ask.
6. As you are open to change, more growth will happen.
7. Forgiveness is for you as well as the other person.
8. Boundaries keep you safe, feel free to set and enforce them.
9. When leaving the past behind be sure and sweep out the dust.
10. Opportunities are everywhere.
11. Awareness is wonderful thing.
12. Complaining blocks prosperity.

 

Your Radiant Love Assignment: Take a moment to go through the list above and note which energies are missing from your life. Then write a few words or sentences about how you could incorporate one of two of them per week into your life.

Now if you are just starting on your path toward living an anxiety free life, sign up for your first one on one consultation with me. Together we will take a look at what is going on for you and how you can embark on your road to wholeness, worthiness and acceptance, work with SPIRIT / God to shift your vibration and increase your feelings of inner peace. We will set up a step by step system to help you manage the feelings and emotions, increase your awareness on how to stay positive, and give you tools to create a better future. I look forward to serving you.

 

 

Deanna

Deanna Gloyd, Your Spiritual Mentor, founder of Transformational Coaching with Radiant Love©, a proven spiritual method that teaches you how to connect with SPIRIT / God in a way that will transform your life, create a closer relationship with SPIRIT / God, and increase your inner peace in a way that is authentic and sustainable.

You will not always be in the place you are right now, you will transcend, you will move forward. There is a better tomorrow.To receive your weekly transformational article on creating a intimate relationship with SPIRIT / God, increase your inner joy and peace, and creating positive self talk, enter your email at the box at the top right of the page right away.